"I Refuse" by Hue and Cry

I've loved this song for years but, in listening to it now, I'm not sure what it is trying to say.  "You'll always be just a little girl" and "your destiny"...?  I really need to write out the lyrics and analyzed them.  Don't have time right now... :(

I'm wondering if it is saying "I refuse" to fill the traditional gender roles?

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The words are slightly different in the various videos.  I feel even more this is about gender roles...

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyFURJFv6Bw
YouTube (re-record?): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRBsRtKlVi8
YouTube (live); https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTTs-RuU0z8
YouTube (live): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyCDr3P5TXE 
YouTube (live TV): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-KtubBUJCA